"A Dominant has a very important, substantial role: she is the protector, teacher, and lover to the submissive.""(And) I would add the traditional Catholic "mommy" and "whore" to the list. Ha Ha!"
For convenience sake...and to preserve our anonymity, in this blog I will refer to my wonderful Wife as Q....as in my Queen...and where needed, i will refer to myself as k....as in Her knight...as i am sworn to serve Her every need and command. And it is by Her strict guidance that i am able to attempt to please my Queen! i hope i am not repeating someone else's moniker for each other...since no idea is 100% original...if i have please be assured it was by accident...
Monday, February 6, 2012
Strict Julie Spanks! And I For One Am Glad
The above quote is from a Blog k and I have been greatly enjoying called "Strict Julie Spanks". And I for one am glad she chooses to share about the firm hand she takes with her husband david! I find it real, and honest. Much like the relationship between k and i to some degree. The quotes posted above (and a few others) really hit the nail on the head for me! The first one is from a book Julie is posting about called "You Would If You Loved Him" by Jacqueline Omerta. The second one is Julie's own words. And I love them both!!!
Julie's post is a sort of mini book review, touching on points that appeal to her, and her relationship with her husband. She is also recommending this book to women not quite sure about their husbands kinks! I love the way Julie and I see eye to eye about doing these things to bring pleasure to our men. Yes I am dominant! And yes, my wants, needs, wishes, and pleasure ultimately come first and foremost! But a large part of my pleasure, happens to be keeping my submissive husband happy as well! This type of attitude, I know, flies in the face of many a dominant woman's philosophy on how to treat a male sub. But k is my husband! I amuse myself as I please! And I take great enjoyment from seeing that k is not only disciplined, but sexually satisfied as well thank you very much. And it just so happens, that catering to many of his little fantasies not only turns me on and gets him off, but it also conveniently works in my favor, by helping to establish my dominance, my control, to all areas of our life!
I recommend you (ladies as well as the naughty boys!) visit Strict Julie and read this post in particular. You can get there by clicking (HERE) . I'm sure you all will want to explore her site further! There are some very hot accounts of bare bottom blistering to be enjoyed! And once again, I thank Julie for sharing!
I'd like to leave the ladies reading this (especially those who might be on the fence about dominating their man) with one more quote Julie took from Jacqueline's book!
"Some women feel a sense of power with a strap-on protruding from their pelvis... Now you get to do the fucking. Wield your complete and total power and have him suck your strap-on before you use it on him... Ever wonder what it feels like to be a man? Now is your chance to experience intercourse as the one who inserts. You can make him really feel like a woman by fucking him in the ass."