For convenience sake...and to preserve our anonymity, in this blog I will refer to my wonderful Wife as in my Queen...and where needed, i will refer to myself as in Her i am sworn to serve Her every need and command. And it is by Her strict guidance that i am able to attempt to please my Queen! i hope i am not repeating someone else's moniker for each other...since no idea is 100% original...if i have please be assured it was by accident...

Friday, June 10, 2011

We Need To Talk


Actually She said, "I need to discuss a few things with you some time this weekend."...This means that at some point...Q will sit down, ( usually fully clothed) and i will be seated, or kneeling naked at Her feet...Because when Q says that She needs to discuss's different than "we" need to discuss something...and me being naked at Her feet only serves to underscore the fact that i'm to do the listening while She does the talking!....

And these type of discussions generally are about new rules...or some things She wants to change...something or someone new She wants to try....or maybe pushing my limits a little further....some  higher expectations She may have developed for me to live up to....I can make a pretty good guess on at least one topic that She will address...there have been several new things of a sexual nature that we have tentatively talked about over the past several weeks, that i know Q has been considering...and i imagine She has come to a few conclusions on these matters....

One thing to note...when these type of discussions are is a tradition we have...that to show my voluntary compliance with any and all new changes or developments...i choose a form of discipline, an appropriate implement, a suggestion on what position i should assume....then offer myself, surrender to suffer at my Wife's hands in a symbolic gesture of my willingness to bend and adapt to any new parameters She has set in place...and i never try to choose a way to get off lightly...(it wouldn't matter even if i did, Q always takes the matter of discipline very seriously...even in "play time"), i always choose an implement that i know will be very painful for me, and satisfying to Her...and then offer it to Her on my knees in a very humble, and worshipful manner...while at the same time...formally offering my body to use,  to do with as She pleases at that very prove my devotion to Her...and my respect for Her decisions and Her judgment....and i must say...Q takes full advantage of my surrendered a way to cement my submission...and to satisfy Her dominant lusts as well!

If nothing changes between now and Sunday...i will have been locked in the CB-6000s for two weeks...i already go into this weekend feeling horny and controlled...and i am quite anxious about what Q may have in store for us...I love Her...and i love being Her submissive...Her slave...Her plaything....i quite often beg to serve all Her needs....but i must say....waiting for what comes next...not knowing what will be expected of me from now on...or what devious ideas Q has in mind for our play time....or perhaps it will all be about Her and Her see....until She makes it my's none of my business...and the not knowing is something this sub still struggles with....And i'm quite sure She gets a thrill from that little bit of unease on my part as well!


Monday, June 6, 2011

Shared Feelings and Realities About Cuckolding

i was reading a post from the blog, - Serving My Mistress  -...where little bitch shared a response from his Wife/Mistress, to a negative comment left on his blog concerning cuckolding...i was astounded at how eloquently She replied to the criticism...and how beautifully She shared Her feelings about the act of cuckolding Her husband, as well as being the Dominant partner in a marriage...She didn't deal with the masturbatory fantasy of fucking other men besides Her husband...rather, the reality of the cuckolding dynamic within their marriage...i shared this article with Q...and She was delighted to read something from another Dominant Wife, that so aptly describes Her thoughts and feelings on this subject matter as well!

We thought it would be beneficial to share this Domme's point of view as that it so closely reflects Q's stance on the subject, and our own reality within a Wife-Led Marriage...And the great blog spot it was posted well worth perusing as please follow this link - Serving my Mistress: Cuckolding: A Domme's Perspective  - read their post and enjoy the site...And thank you little bitch for sharing!